Semoga apa yg dikongsikan ini mendatangkan manfaat buat para pembaca, juga menjadi satu coretan memori yang akan mengembalikan semula cinta apabila dibaca saat kasih antara kami diduga..and of course specially dedicated to my beloved husband yang teringin untuk baca penulisan isterinya, hee
Kalau ikut perkembangan sosial bayi, bila capai umur 30 hari, bayi hanya pandai senyum je..or we call it as social smile..there are lot more things that he has to learn..same goes to both of us, masih lagi bertatih dalam dunia rumah tangga, now everything may seems sweet but the sweetness will not last long unless if both of us really work for it.
My first day as his wife, there was nothing much..(honestly) sbb both of us malu-malu kucing, haha. Tapi there was one moment that I will never forget , the time when we performed solat sunat akad nikah together ..and he hold my head , read whatever doa that he supposed to read. Then saya salam my husband..it was not the first time I hold his hand (sebab ktorg akad nikah malam sebelum), tapi that feeling was sooo different ! When I hold his hand that night , a lot of things running in my head. Mampu ke aku jadi isteri yg terbaik buat dia? But one thing that he said to me yg menyebabkan hati saya tenang "kita bina BM ni sama²". Wedding is about teamwork , if you dont have teamwork then it's gonna be difficult .
Selain daripada teamwork, I guess another important thing is the sense of touch, kalau rasa jauh..touch your partner, skinship will make your bonding stronger .
And of course, prayer..berdoalah supaya Allah tidak pesongkan hati ,supaya Allah sentiasa bimbing..always pray so that Allah give you strength to love him in the way yang Allah redhai, sebab in the end whatever we do, we aim for keredhaan Allah..kalau dah melanggar hukum Allah, cane nak dapat redhaNya kan ?
Alhamdulillah..segala puji bagi Allah, itulah sebaik-baik ungkapan untuk menggambarkan how grateful I am for having him in my life..semoga ikatan ini berkekalan hingga ke syurga, ameennn
I wish I can write more..but I guess thats all for today. Semoga Allah memberkati semua yang membaca :)
